So tonight I do not feel like posting a review, but I feel more like putting myself out there and talking about some things that I know we all face.
Everyone is put in a position where they do not feel like they even deserve/belong to be where they are. Example: you sign up for an underwater basket weaving class and you are really good at holding your breath underwater, but you cannot weave to save your life, even though you try really hard. These situations make us feel uncomfortable, as we look to our right and left and see others that have underwater basket weaved all their lives and we feel inferior. All the fun we initially expected from these times vanishes as we feel like we are making complete and utter fools of ourselves.
Tonight, I urge you not to give up the underwater basket weaving class AS LONG AS it is within reason. You would be within reason to quit a class that's for students at the advanced level if you were only at a beginning level. We don't start running the race half way through, now do we?
Another word for the wise? Do not do what I have done, and compare yourself to the best darn weaver in the class. That is suicide, because you not only will feel like total horse poop compared to them, but your weaving will be greatly affected [effected? i don't know] as well. I have done this too many times and I do not want anyone I know feeling the same way that I have felt. Feeling uncomfortable and stepping out of your shell once in awhile is great, but not when you beat yourself up afterward. Instead, focus on the things that you can do really well, like playing soccer or singing in choir. Maybe your talent isn't underwater basket weaving, and that's okay. Chances are that for the other people that are really good at underwater basket weaving really have a talent for it or have been doing it much longer than you have. We cannot be great at everything we try, especially when we first start out. That, my friends, is a concept I have yet to teach my stubborn little mind.
Well, Zakk is my only follower...so, "Hey Zakk!" Comments?
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